Mistress Amanda Dwyer

Please don't insult me by sending photo's stating it is you in the photo when in actual fact it is a pic from a website or catalogue.
This approach is hardly a good introduction and very insincere.

Thank you to Maids who have applied so far, I will be in contact shortly to arrange a time to meet.

Ever fantasised about being the perfect Ladies Maid? Well, now is your chance to become the Maid you've always dreamt
of and to serve Me at Salon Kitty's.

I am currently seeking submissives who have a great need to please a strong Mistress.

I am not interested in time wasters. Kindly email me with your experience and interests, the times you would have
available and a recent pic of you dressed as a Maid. References are always appreciated.

In the last couple of weeks I have sent out emails to all those who applied for a position at Salon Kitty's.
I am in the process of conducting interviews.

Please note, if you work as a Pro Domme you are working in a legal industry. You must have either an
ABN number or tax file number. Everyone who works in this country is required to pay tax, sex workers
are NOT exempt!

If you are interested in a position please email me giving your mobile contact details the best times for
you to attend an interview, some information about your interests, experience in the BDSM scene as well
as a recent pic if you have one. With that said I am currently looking for:

Female submissives - experienced women and those who would like to gain experience.
Experienced Mistresses and those who are not experienced but would like to make Female Domination a career.

Please note you MUST have a current work visa, without that you are unable to work anywhere
legally in this country.

Check out the url below.
http://www.nationalvisas.com.au/working/workingholidayvisas.htm

One of the questions I'm often asked when a new submissive is on roster is "What are her limits?"
To some extent this is a meaningless question because on many occasions a new submissive doesn't know the answer
to that question because she has never had those limits tested or challenged. In addition a new submissive can often
be either too willing to please or too scared to trust.

I must say am always wary of ladies (or anyone) who tell me they have no limits. From experience the statement of
no limits can mean only three things, either the submissive is a lifestyle 'virgin', has had some but little experience or
is masochistically off centre. I have met some people who want to go into some very dark places which can be dangerous.

All sane human beings have limits. There are or should be fundamental boundaries across which the human mind is
incapable of retaining sanity should those boundaries be crossed. These are called hard limits. A Hard Limit is an issue
or belief that must remain inviolate for the individual to retain a belief in themselves and the world around them.
These are belief's that will never change. They are a part of the core or inner self, personal ethics.

It is commonly recognized that the basic three hard limits are NO CHILDREN - NO ANIMALS - NO DEAD PEOPLE
None of them can consent. Anyone who actively choose to violate them also breaks the law.

Some slaves are known to masturbate in the shower prior to their session and do this for a number of reasons.
I know of quite a few who cannot contain themselves - once Mistress enters the room the excitement takes
over, they only need flick the end of their penis (or have Mistress utter a command) and they explode.

Recently a young lady I was counseling complained that her slave wouldn't stop masturbating, so much so that
she thought he was abnormal. She wanted me to confirm her suspicions that he was giving heavy hints to place him
in a chastity device or to discipline him (in other words topping from the bottom) The amount he masturbates was really
concerning her.

Both males and females masturbate, it is generally considered normal behaviour and is part of an individual's sexuality.
Beginning early in life masturbation is most likely the first sexual act experienced by most males and females, is part of
one's sexual development and linked to indicators of sexual health. Sex with a spouse or partner is great, but solo time
is part of any healthy relationship. Furthermore, masturbation is a good way to experience sexual pleasure which can
be done throughout life.

Myths and religious beliefs can influence one's perception of masturbation, once regarded as a perversion and a
sign mental problems. Masturbation should not be viewed as a perversion, unlike a perversion it can be satisfied.(Rossi)

The time to consider masturbation a problem is when it inhibits sexual relations with a partner, is done in public, or causes
significant distress. A slave can always earn the right to wear a chastity device for his Mistress.

Masturbation can be used to enhance a relationship, it can't harm a person physically or psychologically, unless it were to
replace normal, daily functioning. Masturbation can teach people how their bodies respond to sexual stimulation.

First of all, I want to stress, those of you who have your own chastity devices, it really is imperative that you have a spare key!

Now a bit of trivia for you. As you all know throughout the ages a jealous husband or concerned father have adopted extreme measures for the assuring of exclusive sexual attentions of loved ones by depriving others (and sometimes themselves), the privilege of using sexual organs to satisfy the pleasures of the flesh. Chastity belts and girdles of various designs have been pressed into service not only for this denial but also the more extreme and painful practice of infibulation by suturing or "buckling" of the genitalia -- both male and female.

One of the earliest known literary reference to a device used to enforce sexual bondage is Homer's "Odyssey", which describes how the Goddess Aphrodite (Venus) betrayed her husband, Hephaistos, by dallying with his brother Ares. The outrages Hephaistos, aflame with jealousy, took vengeance by forcing a girdle about the goddess's loins to stop further infidelities. Although infibulation ( the sewing up or buckling of the genitalia) was once widely practiced in ancient times, the utilization of the actual chastity belt does not seem to have become prevalent until the 12th Century. Said to have been brought to Europe from the Oriental countries during the Crusades, the chastity belt was first popularized by the Forentines, whose wives were notorious for their sexual promiscuity. Soon the device, designed in many models and variations, became popular all over Europe.

Interestingly, Dingwall, in his "The Girdle of Chastity", describes a typical medieval chastity belts as follows: "It consists essentially of two main parts: a band of flexible metal and a perforated plate or pair of hinged plates. The band is worn around the body above the hips, the hinder part passing just above the nates. The second part of the apparatus, if in one portion, is attached by a joint to the flexible band in front. This second piece constructed either of metal, bone or ivory, is made convex so that it presses firmly against the mons veneris and extending downward completely encloses the vulva, an indentated or plain perforation permitting the natural functions but being to small to admit even the tip of the finger. When two plates are used these are hinged or jointed in the middle, one section covering the anterior portion of the body, whilst the other is drawn up in a posterior direction covering the natal cleft and attached to the band where it passes just above the buttocks. In this case the lock can either be in the encircling band or at the back where the hinged plate joins it. In the former one piece model the lock is usually in front, the band being made adjustable in both cases to fit persons of varying degrees of girth. In the cases where two plates are used, not only are the external genitals guarded, but also the anus, this precaution being taken, so report has it, in order to prevent those variations of the methods of coitus which were said to have been introduced into Italy from the East."

So obviously the Easterners were enjoying anal sex long before the Italians.

Lots of people enjoy gags, and, at least in consensual scenes, one rarely hears of anyone being killed or hurt because of one.

Part of the excitement of being tied up is knowing you will be gagged and your Mistress will have control. After discussing your limits the styles of submissives/slave I know I prefer are those who want to be taken a little beyond their limits, with that comes trust and judgment.

Gagging a submissive makes the scene more dominating for him and more fun and interesting. The slave can't call out, and it's exciting to see limits being stretched. However, the slave being silenced effectively [means] he has to be able to trust me further and learn what I teach.

Also, being gagged can "allow" us to play a nonverbal role in the erotic conversation, voicing passion in elemental grunts and moans and muffled screams. For anyone who tends to watch their words carefully, it can be a marvelous release if you can relax and enjoy it.

I was talking with someone recently who explained that while he liked the idea of being gagged, various problems kept him from enjoying the reality and it was spoiling his sessions for him. He, like many others I have met, has a long history of respiratory allergies. His nose also tends to clog when he's anxious or excited. Even if he is okay with a gag at first, knowing that he could suddenly have trouble breathing at any time puts a real damper on his enthusiasm. If a ball or ring gag is placed in his mouth a few minutes later his jaw muscles are in agony. Stick a large cock or plug gag in, and he tends to choke or even vomit

These are not exactly rare conditions; many bondage enthusiasts share one or more of them. People vary a great deal in what they can take, but the factors that can make gags risky are legion. In addition to those mentioned already, there's asthma, emphysema, bronchitis, and other common respiratory diseases, all of which can cause severe breathing problems with little or no warning. I am an asthmatic myself and know only too well how quickly one can suffer a sudden attack.

Anybody can catch a cold or another respiratory infection, and a gag that's too large for a particular bottom's mouth can cause excruciating jaw spasms or vomiting despite their being able to handle smaller or less intrusive gags very well. And even someone with no known medical counter-indications can suddenly develop a breathing problem while gagged for a wide variety of reasons.

At present we have all our receptionist shifts filled and I thank everyone who applied. I am still receiving applications and will put
them on file and contact people when we have another Receptionist position available.

Women interested in submissive and Pro Domme work please note I am not interviewing again till mid June. If you send me
your details and a few pics if possible I will contact you with dates and times for when I will be interviewing again.

Seems our dear Leslie is still going to be working on Saturday evenings for a while yet.