First and foremost please do not consider becoming a Professional Dominatrix unless you are a true lover of the BDSM/Fetish Scene. Without that burning love and desire to be a Pro Domme you won't be happy and you probably will not succeed in Female Domination as your career.
Female Domination comes in many styles. Naturally you would want to be a powerful, desired and appreciated Domme admired by all the submissives you Dominate. However, I find it is a good idea to ask yourself: Do I see myself as a Mistress who is a Trainer, Teacher, Goddess, Sadist, Loving Control Queen, Seductress, Temptress, Punisher, or Mother figure? Perhaps at this stage you don't really know. What excites, energises and turns you on as a Domme will dictate the styles of sessions you gravitate towards and enjoy the most.
So, what kind of woman wants to be a Domme?
All types really. Many ladies have warm caring personalities, not quite what many people imagine. You cannot be a man hater; that is a fantasy for some of our clients and great for the dungeons but in reality it doesn't work. Women who have been through a bad relationship and want to get back at all men never even get to first base with me.
Ladies who have worked in the sex industry and want a change of pace and atmosphere usually do very well. The majority of the Salon Kitty's women are tertiary educated and have backgrounds in a variety of areas such as theatre, nursing, martial arts, to name but a few.
Throughout your Dominatrix career you will face many challenges. It is through these experiences you will gradually learn your limits.
Some of the areas ladies cover in their first few months in the Dungeons with myself and various other Mistresses are as follows.
Becoming a Mistress.
There are many reasons why a lady chooses to become a Pro Domme. You will have the opportunity of being involved in discussion and workshops with some of Australia's most experienced and respected Mistresses.
This includes the art of touching, eye contact, your posture and learning how to use your body provocatively, how to use your voice. It's all about playing with the senses.
Safety and First Aid.
I strongly suggest everyone who wants to be a Pro Domme complete a St. Johns Ambulance or Red Cross Safety/First Aid courses. We do cover areas which have particular relevance to BDSM in the first weeks of your training.
Psychological Do's and Don'ts.
What happens when a session goes wrong? How do you get yourself out of a sessional dilemma when you can see things are just not working?
The Art of negotiation.
Communication is definitely the name of the game. You will learn skills which will help make your client relax enabling him to divulge his innermost desires to you.
Some of the other areas you will cover in your first six months are:
Strap on Dildo usage
Medical Fantasies, enemas and catheters,
Toilet Training your slaves
The Art of Discipline
The Art of Bondage
The Art of Sexual Tease
Know your own body
Know your partner's body
Building Suspense in your session.
Nipple Play and Torture
To name a few.
Everyone who commences an apprenticeship at Salon Kitty's does so on a trial basis. You need to discover if the Pro Domme lifestyle is for you or if working with us suits your personality.
Please feel free to ask me any questions regarding working at Salon Kitty's.